By Nnabugwu Chizoba
My
people, my people. How una dey?
Please
make una help me resolve the question below
Between the BEGGER and the GIVER, who
does more for the other?
I
ask this question mindful of the fact that the BEGGER, makes the GIVER feel very
important, more recognized, better placed, indeed superior and in most cases a
pillar of sort.
My
inability to resolve this seemingly simple and non-issue, as some of you might
classify it or claim the subject matter is, stems partly from the fact, that the above feelings are something we all
crave for, struggle for and even fight for each time it is denied. Some of us
even go as far as attaching themselves to other people, who they feel possess
what it takes to be recognized, respected and revered.
Some
members of the society, even use, GIVING to beggers and the down trodden as a
means of measuring, and rating how wealthy, rich, popular some members of the
society are, and as a determining factor as to how they should be treated by
the society.